....of responsibilities and relationships....

I think its about time that I accepted my responsibility and calling to write about relationships and responsibilities having procastinated this for about nine months (for those of you who don't get the frame of reference here, I got married in November 2014)

...you don't buy every car you like, you certainly don't buy every car you see, you MOST CERTAINLY cannot afford to buy every car that you may prefer to drive...

Yes, I'm keeping this blog really as simple as possible because I fear the topic on hand is extremely important and hence the need to be lucid... ...

Continuing from earlier...you must weigh and value each relationship that you are in and its associated inseparable responsibility...how much can you afford really?? and how much of it do you really want??

I have reached the conclusion without any doubt that the most dangerous and un-necessary relationship/responsbility combination is the one you have with your mind. An object, a sound that in reality must simply be ignored like you every time hear a car honk on any Madras road.

Seriously, it possesses not even a smidgen of sense of reason, there is TOTAL absence of any sense of logic whatsoever. Please note, mind and brain are separate in my view. Physically, they may be neighbors or twins but they do or not-do completely different functions.

How can a relationship that ONLY keeps taking and NEVER gives anything in return be worth having?? Relationship with a mind that NEVER accepts any responsibility, NEVER decides anything, CONSTANTLY confuses, CONSTANTLY orders you do stuff is just like a over-worked, under-paid job with a horrible unreasonable manager - that is waiting for you to simply QUIT!!

PLEASE think about this relationship with your minds and decide how much of it can actually be endured and IGNORE the rest like those endless, needless car honks on Indian roads.....! ;-)